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By Barbara Heffernan • October 20, 2026
Anxiety and insomnia often go hand in hand. But is anxiety the only cause of your insomnia? Being screened by a medical doctor is very important. This post reviews the five major areas of medical issues that impact insomnia and also provides a checklist of what to bring to your doctor appointment.
By Barbara Heffernan • October 7, 2026
Many people think insomnia is diagnosed based on how many hours you sleep. But it is not. Here's the actual criteria for diagnosis.
By Barbara Heffernan • September 30, 2026
Do you worry about how much sleep you get? We have been told for years that we need eight hours of sleep every night — that if we get it, great, and if we do not, it is a major problem. Yet, worrying about this is making the problem worse! Insomnia is painful, and this post includes practical tips to help.
By Barbara Heffernan • September 17, 2026
Struggling with anxiety and avoidance? Learn why avoiding uncomfortable situations reinforces fear, causes anxiety to spread, and how exposure therapy, fear extinction, and EMDR can help break the cycle.
By Barbara Heffernan • September 11, 2026
Anticipatory anxiety shuts down our creative problem-solving, just when we need it the most. Here's the process to get it back. 4 steps to help anticipatory anxiety.
By Barbara Heffernan • August 6, 2026
"Just stop thinking about it" doesn't work. However, the Attention Training Technique from Metacognitive Therapy has been shown to help lower anxiety and rumination.
By Barbara Heffernan • July 23, 2026
Does your brain drive you nuts going over and over the same thing—the mistake you made, the difficult conversation you had....anything you are worried about? This is rumination and it is driven by the Default Mode Network of the brain. Understanding this can help you change.
By Barbara Heffernan • July 16, 2026
Social anxiety often has a trauma root — understanding the connection can help you heal.
By Barbara Heffernan • July 9, 2026
Overloaded and Overwhelmed? You are in the right place. Here's help.
By Barbara Heffernan • June 26, 2026
overwhelm has a cruel side effect. It shuts us down. Right when we feel like we need to get more done, not less, overwhelm makes our mind go blank or puts us into a freeze stateUnderstanding how overwhelm manifests for you can really help you calm it down.